I don't have very many friends, but the ones I have are awesome-- really awesome!
And sometimes my friends have drama in their lives, and I try to stay out of it as best I can. As you know, I hate drama. If I see drama coming, I run the other way. I prefer to live simply and drama free. But sometimes other peoples' drama can spill over, and sometimes I'm caught in its nasty web. And, well, that happens.
But if I'm your friend, then I'm willing to get caught in the web with you, and together we can fight our way out, becoming stronger and better friends in the end.
And I try not to judge people on the decisions they make. I know I'm not perfect. And I cannot un-friend a person because they make decisions that others may not agree with. Life is short and sometimes people just need to do what is best for them, and I can understand that.
All I know is that as long as you treat me and my family with respect, and you show me the same kindness I have shown you, I will be your friend to the end...no matter what! And just because others might judge you, I won't jump on that band wagon and become a hater. I'm too grown up for that.